Romantic relationships and sexuality in adolescence and young adulthood: The role of parents, peers, and partners

European Journal of Developmental Psychology

Volumn 12, Issue 5, 2015, Pages 497-515

  van de Bongardt, Daphne ^a   Yu, Rongqin ^b   Deković, Maja ^b   Meeus, Wim H J ^b,c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF AMSTERDAM   (Netherlands)

^b UTRECHT UNIVERSITY   (Netherlands)

^c TILBURG UNIVERSITY   (Netherlands)

Author keywords

Adolescence; Parents, peers, partners; Romantic relationships; Sexuality; Social contexts; Young adulthood

Indexed keywords

EID: 84946901135     PISSN: 17405629     EISSN: 17405610     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/17405629.2015.1068689     Document Type: Editorial

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