Identification with the relationship as essential to marital resilience: Theory, application, and evidence

Couple Resilience: Emerging Perspectives

Volumn , Issue , 2015, Pages 139-162

  Reid, David W ^a   Ahma, Saunia ^a  

^a YORK UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

Author keywords

"We ness"; Complex systems; Coping; Dual processing; Identity; Relational awareness; Resilience; Systemic constructivist couple therapy (SCCT)

Indexed keywords

EID: 84942901222     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1007/978-94-017-9909-6_8     Document Type: Chapter

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