Nonviolent resistance: A new approach to violent and self-destructive children

Nonviolent Resistance: A New Approach to Violent and Self-Destructive Children

Volumn , Issue , 2004, Pages 1-217

  Omer, Haim ^a   London Sapir, Shoshannah ^b  

^a TEL AVIV UNIVERSITY   (Israel)

^b NONE

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DOI: 10.1017/CBO9780511550652     Document Type: Book

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