Women, breast cancer survivorship, sexual losses, and disenfranchised grief – a treatment model for clinicians

Sexual and Relationship Therapy

Volumn 29, Issue 4, 2014, Pages 436-453

  Pillai Friedman, S ^a   Ashline, J L ^a  

^a WIDENER UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

ambiguous loss; breast cancer; disenfranchised grief; PLISSIT model; sexual self schema; symbolic loss

Indexed keywords

EID: 84919461407     PISSN: 14681994     EISSN: 14681749     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/14681994.2014.934340     Document Type: Article

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