Exclusion of the self by close others and by groups: Implications of the self-expansion model

Social Psychology of Inclusion and Exclusion

Volumn , Issue , 2004, Pages 113-134

  McLaughlin Volpe, Tracy ^a   Aron, Art ^b   Wright, Stephen C ^c   Lewandowski, Gary W ^d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF VERMONT   (United States)

^b STONY BROOK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c SIMON FRASER UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

^d MONMOUTH UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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EID: 84906448060     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.4324/9780203496176     Document Type: Chapter

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