Close relationships as including other in the self

Close Relationships: Key Readings

Volumn , Issue , 2004, Pages 438-456

  Aron, Arthur ^a,b   Aron, Elaine N ^a   Tudor, Michael ^a   Nelson, Greg ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

^b STONY BROOK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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EID: 84906152196     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.4324/9780203311851     Document Type: Chapter

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