Too close for comfort? Adult attachment and cuddling in romantic and parent-child relationships

Personality and Individual Differences

Volumn 69, Issue , 2014, Pages 212-216

  Chopik, William J ^a   Edelstein, Robin S ^a   van Anders, Sari M ^a   Wardecker, Britney M ^a   Shipman, Emily L ^a   Samples Steele, Chelsea R ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN   (United States)

^b MICHIGAN STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Attachment; Attachment anxiety; Attachment avoidance; Cuddling; Intimate touch; Relationships

Indexed keywords

EID: 84903490152     PISSN: 01918869     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1016/j.paid.2014.05.035     Document Type: Article

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