An Attachment-Theory Perspective on Social Support in Close Relationships

Handbook of Interpersonal Psychology: Theory, Research, Assessment, and Therapeutic Interventions

Volumn , Issue , 2012, Pages 209-231

  Collins, Nancy L ^a   Ford, Máire B ^b   Feeney, Brooke C ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

^b LOYOLA MARYMOUNT UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c CARNEGIE MELLON UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Attachment; Caregiving; Couples; Responsiveness; Social support

Indexed keywords

EID: 84886193111     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1002/9781118001868.ch13     Document Type: Chapter

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