Newlyweds' optimistic forecasts of their marriage: For better or for worse?

Journal of Family Psychology

Volumn 27, Issue 4, 2013, Pages 531-540

  Lavner, Justin A ^a   Karney, Benjamin R ^a   Bradbury, Thomas N ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Affective forecasting; Cognitive processes; Marital satisfaction; Newlywed couples

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ADULT; AFFECT; AGGRESSION; ARTICLE; COGNITION; FEMALE; FOLLOW UP; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MARRIAGE; MENTAL STRESS; MOTIVATION; PHYSIOLOGY; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; QUESTIONNAIRE; SATISFACTION; SELF CONCEPT; SEX RATIO; SEXUALITY; SPOUSE; STATISTICS; YOUNG ADULT;

ADAPTATION, PSYCHOLOGICAL; ADULT; AFFECT; AGGRESSION; COGNITION; FEMALE; FOLLOW-UP STUDIES; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MARRIAGE; MOTIVATION; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; QUESTIONNAIRES; SELF CONCEPT; SEX DISTRIBUTION; SEXUAL PARTNERS; SPOUSES; STRESS, PSYCHOLOGICAL; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 84883266772     PISSN: 08933200     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0033423     Document Type: Article

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