Emotional intelligence and empathic accuracy in friendships and dating relationships

Emotional Intelligence in Everyday Life

Volumn , Issue , 2013, Pages 140-165

  Flury, Judith ^a   Ickes, William ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT ARLINGTON   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9780203943397-18     Document Type: Chapter

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