"When You're Sitting on the Fence, Hope's the Hardest Part": Challenges and Experiences of Heterosexual and Same-Sex Couples Adopting Through the Child Welfare System

Adoption Quarterly

Volumn 15, Issue 4, 2012, Pages 288-315

  Goldberg, Abbie E ^a   Moyer, April M ^a   Kinkler, Lori A ^a   Richardson, Hannah B ^a  

^a CLARK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

adoption; child welfare; discrimination; foster care; gay; lesbian; public adoption

Indexed keywords

EID: 84870618737     PISSN: 10926755     EISSN: 1544452X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/10926755.2012.731032     Document Type: Article

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