Eye of the beholder: The individual and dyadic contributions of empathic accuracy and perceived empathic effort to relationship satisfaction

Journal of Family Psychology

Volumn 26, Issue 2, 2012, Pages 236-245

  Cohen, Shiri ^a   Schulz, Marc S ^b   Weiss, Emily ^b   Waldinger, Robert J ^a  

^a MASSACHUSETTS GENERAL HOSPITAL   (United States)

^b BRYN MAWR COLLEGE   (United States)

Author keywords

Couples; Empathic accuracy; Empathy; Perceived empathic effort; Relationship satisfaction

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; COMPARATIVE STUDY; EMOTION; EMPATHY; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; PERCEPTION; PHYSIOLOGY; PSYCHOLOGIC TEST; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; QUESTIONNAIRE; SATISFACTION; SEX DIFFERENCE; SEXUALITY; SPOUSE;

ADULT; EMOTIONS; EMPATHY; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTS; QUESTIONNAIRES; SEX FACTORS; SEXUAL PARTNERS; SOCIAL PERCEPTION; SPOUSES;

EID: 84865079989     PISSN: 08933200     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0027488     Document Type: Article

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