Belonging motivation: Establishing, maintaining, and repairing relational value

Social Motivation

Volumn , Issue , 2011, Pages 37-55

  Leary, Mark R ^a   Allen, Ashley Batts ^a  

^a DUKE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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