A mindful approach to managing conflict in intercultural intimate couples

Intercultural Couples: Exploring Diversity in Intimate Relationships

Volumn , Issue , 2011, Pages 31-49

  Ting Toomey, Stella ^a  

^a CALIFORNIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9780203843789     Document Type: Chapter

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