From refrigerator mothers to warrior-heroes: The cultural identity transformation of mothers raising children with intellectual disabilities

Symbolic Interaction

Volumn 34, Issue 2, 2011, Pages 220-243

  Sousa, Amy C ^a  

^a BOSTON COLLEGE   (United States)

Author keywords

Autism; Good mother; Heroism; Identity; Intellectual disability; Memoir; Mother blame; Thematic discourse analysis

Indexed keywords

EID: 79955676994     PISSN: 01956086     EISSN: 15338665     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1525/si.2011.34.2.220     Document Type: Article

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