Misery has more company than people think: Underestimating the prevalence of others' negative emotions

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 37, Issue 1, 2011, Pages 120-135

  Jordan, Alexander H ^a   Monin, Benoît ^a   Dweck, Carol S ^a   Lovett, Benjamin J ^b   John, Oliver P ^c   Gross, James J ^a  

^a STANFORD UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b SYRACUSE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

emotion; emotion regulation; pluralistic ignorance; social comparison; well being

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ARTICLE; DECISION MAKING; DEFENSE MECHANISM; EMOTION; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; PEER GROUP; PREVALENCE; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; QUALITY OF LIFE; SATISFACTION; SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY;

ADOLESCENT; EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; JUDGMENT; PEER GROUP; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; PREVALENCE; QUALITY OF LIFE; REPRESSION, PSYCHOLOGY; SOCIAL VALUES; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 78650505660     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: 15527433     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167210390822     Document Type: Article

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