The Mating Sociometer: A Regulatory Mechanism for Mating Aspirations

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 99, Issue 1, 2010, Pages 120-132

  Kavanagh, Phillip S ^a   Robins, Sarah C ^a   Ellis, Bruce J ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CANTERBURY   (New Zealand)

^b UNIVERSITY OF ARIZONA   (United States)

Author keywords

evolutionary psychology; mate choice; self esteem; social rejection; sociometer theory

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ARTICLE; ATTITUDE; BEHAVIOR CONTROL; FEMALE; FRIEND; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MOTIVATION; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; PSYCHOLOGICAL MODEL; SELF CONCEPT; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIOMETRIC STATUS; PSYCHOLOGY; YOUNG ADULT;

ADOLESCENT; ASPIRATIONS (PSYCHOLOGY); BEHAVIOR CONTROL; FEMALE; FRIENDS; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MODELS, PSYCHOLOGICAL; REJECTION (PSYCHOLOGY); SELF CONCEPT; SOCIAL IDENTIFICATION; SOCIOMETRIC TECHNIQUES; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 77953905094     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0018188     Document Type: Article

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