The tip of the iceberg: A framework for identifying non-physical abuse in couple and family relationships

Journal of Feminist Family Therapy

Volumn 22, Issue 2, 2010, Pages 112-129

  James, Kerrie ^a   MacKinnon, Laurie ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF NEW SOUTH WALES   (Australia)

^b Insite Therapy and Consulting   (Australia)

Author keywords

Coercion; Couple abuse; Couple therapy; Emotional violence; Family therapy; Family violence; Feminist therapy; Psychological abuse; Verbal abuse

Indexed keywords

EID: 77952563195     PISSN: 08952833     EISSN: 15404099     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/08952831003787867     Document Type: Article

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