Attachment and conflict communication in adult romantic relationships

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 26, Issue 5, 2009, Pages 678-696

  Domingue, Rachel ^a   Mollen, Debra ^a  

^a TEXAS WOMAN'S UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Adult romantic relationships attachment style; Communication conflict; Demand withdrawal

Indexed keywords

EID: 71949101151     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407509347932     Document Type: Article

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