Compassionate Motivation and Compassionate Acts across the Adult Life Course: Evidence from US National Studies

The Science of Compassionate Love: Theory, Research, and Applications

Volumn , Issue , 2009, Pages 121-158

  Marks, Nadine F ^a   Song, Jieun ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WISCONSIN MADISON   (United States)

Author keywords

Anthropological and sociological theory and research on giving to others; Compassionate acts across adult life course; Compassionate motivation and acts; Compassionate norms and compassionate acts in US adult population; Eriksonian theory and compassionate love; Social elements of compassionate love model

Indexed keywords

EID: 70349508347     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1002/9781444303070.ch5     Document Type: Chapter

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