Why can't we just talk about it? An observational study of parents' and adolescents' conversations about sex

Journal of Adolescent Research

Volumn 23, Issue 6, 2008, Pages 689-721

  Afifi, Tamara D ^a   Joseph, Andrea ^a   Aldeis, Desiree ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Communication; Communication competence; Observational study; Parent adolescent relationships; Sex

Indexed keywords

EID: 54049104900     PISSN: 07435584     EISSN: 15526895     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0743558408323841     Document Type: Article

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