Treating Infidelity: Considering Narratives of Attachment

The Family Journal

Volumn 16, Issue 4, 2008, Pages 293-299

  Duba, Jill D ^a,b   Kindsvatter, Aaron ^a,b   Lara, Tracy ^a,b  

^a WESTERN KENTUCKY UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b KENT STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

attachment theory; couples counseling; family therapy; infidelity; narrative therapy

Indexed keywords

EID: 52249107379     PISSN: 10664807     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1066480708323198     Document Type: Article

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