Couples and the first baby: Responding to new parents' sexual and relationship problems

Sexual and Relationship Therapy

Volumn 19, Issue 3, 2004, Pages 223-246

  Pacey, Susan ^a,b  

^a Camden Primary Care Trust   (United Kingdom)

^b Bentinck Mansions   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; CHILD PARENT RELATION; CHILDBIRTH; CONCEPTION; DIVORCE; EMOTIONALITY; EVIDENCE BASED MEDICINE; EXPERIENCE; HEALTH CARE ACCESS; HEALTH CARE PERSONNEL; HUMAN; MARITAL THERAPY; NATIONAL HEALTH SERVICE; PARENTHOOD; RESOURCE MANAGEMENT; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION; SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY; SOCIOECONOMICS; UNITED KINGDOM;

EID: 4544312513     PISSN: 14681994     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/14681990410001715391     Document Type: Article

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