Intimacy in adolescent friendship: The roles of attachment, coherence, and self-disclosure

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 25, Issue 3, 2008, Pages 409-428

  Bauminger, Nirit ^a   Finzi Dottan, Ricky ^a   Chason, Sagit ^a   Har Even, Dov ^a  

^a BAR ILAN UNIVERSITY   (Israel)

Author keywords

Adolescence; Attachment; Coherence; Friendship; Intimacy; Self disclosure

Indexed keywords

EID: 45149097649     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407508090866     Document Type: Article

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