'Gagged grief and beleaguered bereavements?' An analysis of multidisciplinary theory and research relating to same sex partnership bereavement

Sexualities

Volumn 11, Issue 3, 2008, Pages 275-300

  Green, Lorraine ^a,b   Grant, Victoria ^b,c  

^a SHEFFIELD HALLAM UNIVERSITY   (United Kingdom)

^b UNIVERSITY OF MANCHESTER   (United Kingdom)

^c Manchester University ^*  (Australia)

Author keywords

Bereavement; Death; Disenfranchised grief; Homosexuality; Oppression; Psychiatrization

Indexed keywords

EID: 42649123678     PISSN: 13634607     EISSN: 14617382     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1363460708089421     Document Type: Article

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