Empathy, egalitarianism and emotion work in the relational negotiation of PMS: The experience of women in Lesbian relationships

Feminism and Psychology

Volumn 18, Issue 1, 2008, Pages 87-111

  Ussher, Jane M ^a,b   Perz, Janette ^a,c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF WESTERN SYDNEY   (Australia)

^b Department of Women's Health Psychology ^*

^c School of Psychology

Author keywords

Communication; Gender; Inter subjectivity; Lesbian couples; Premenstrual change; Premenstrual syndrome; Qualitative research

Indexed keywords

EID: 38349048637     PISSN: 09593535     EISSN: 14617161     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0959353507084954     Document Type: Article

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