Friendships of Indonesian, South Korean, and U.S. youth: Exclusivity, intimacy, enhancement of worth, and conflict

Peer Relationships in Cultural Context

Volumn , Issue , 2006, Pages 379-402

  French, Doran C ^a   Lee, Okhwa ^b   Pidada, Sri Untari ^c  

^a ILLINOIS WESLEYAN UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b Chungbuk National University   (South Korea)

^c PADJADJARAN UNIVERSITY   (Indonesia)

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EID: 37249010794     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1017/CBO9780511499739.017     Document Type: Chapter

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