"Am i still a virgin?": What counts as sex in 20 years of Seventeen

Sexuality and Culture

Volumn 11, Issue 2, 2007, Pages 24-38

  Medley Rath, Stephanie R ^a,b  

^a GEORGIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF WEST GEORGIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Adolescents; Heteronormativity; Heterosexuality; Sexual behavior; Technical virginity; Traditional virginity

Indexed keywords

EID: 35349011642     PISSN: 10955143     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s12119-007-9002-x     Document Type: Article

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