Who is a parent? Parenthood in Islamic ethics

Journal of Medical Ethics

Volumn 33, Issue 10, 2007, Pages 605-609

  Banu az Zubair, M Kabir ^a,b  

^a NATIONAL BIOTECHNOLOGY DEVELOPMENT AGENCY   (Nigeria)

^b Federal Ministry of Science and Technology   (Nigeria)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; BIOETHICS; CHILD PARENT RELATION; ETHICS; FAMILY RELATION; FEMALE; HUMAN; INFERTILITY THERAPY; LEGAL ASPECT; MALE; MARRIAGE; PARENT; PREGNANCY; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; RELIGION; REPRODUCTION;

BIOETHICAL ISSUES; FAMILY RELATIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; ISLAM; MALE; MARRIAGE; PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS; PARENTING; PARENTS; PREGNANCY; RELIGION AND MEDICINE; REPRODUCTION; REPRODUCTIVE TECHNIQUES, ASSISTED;

EID: 35348930993     PISSN: 03066800     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1136/jme.2005.015396     Document Type: Article

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