Coming to terms with the loss of a child: The feelings of birth parents and grandparents about adoption and post-adoption contact

Adoption Quarterly

Volumn 10, Issue 1, 2007, Pages 1-23

  Neil, Elsbeth ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF EAST ANGLIA   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

Birth family; Birth grandparents; Birth parents; Post adoption contact

Indexed keywords

EID: 33947406310     PISSN: 10926755     EISSN: 1544452X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J145v10n01_01     Document Type: Article

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