Perceived similarity and relationship success among dating couples: An idiographic approach

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 23, Issue 6, 2006, Pages 865-880

  Lutz Zois, Catherine J ^a   Bradley, Angela C ^b   Mihalik, Jennifer L ^c   Moorman Eavers, Erika R ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF DAYTON   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH FLORIDA   (United States)

^c Bellefaire Jewish Children's Bureau

Author keywords

Idiographic; Relationship outcome; Relationship satisfaction; Similarity; Social cognition

Indexed keywords

EID: 33751585010     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407506068267     Document Type: Article

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