"I hated her guts!": Emerging adults' recollections of the formation, maintenance, and termination of antipathetic relationships during high school

Journal of Adolescent Research

Volumn 22, Issue 1, 2007, Pages 32-57

  Card, Noel A ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ARIZONA   (United States)

Author keywords

Antipathetic relationships; Enemies; Friendships; Peer relations

Indexed keywords

EID: 33751503719     PISSN: 07435584     EISSN: 15526895     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0743558406295783     Document Type: Article

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