Motherhood is not a given thing: Experiences and constructed meanings of biological and nonbiological lesbian mothers

Sex Roles

Volumn 54, Issue 7-8, 2006, Pages 521-531

  Ben Ari, Adital ^a   Livni, Tali ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF HAIFA   (Israel)

Author keywords

Biological and nonbiological mothers; Lesbian couplehood; Lesbian motherhood; Phenomenological analysis

Indexed keywords

EID: 33751001613     PISSN: 03600025     EISSN: 15732762     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11199-006-9016-0     Document Type: Article

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