Intersexuality in the family: An unacknowledged trauma

Journal of Gay and Lesbian Psychotherapy

Volumn 10, Issue 2, 2006, Pages 27-56

  Lev, Arlene Istar ^a  

^a STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK   (United States)

Author keywords

Ambiguous genitalia; Disorders of sex development; Family; Genital surgery; Intersex; Intersexed; Psychotherapy; Sex assignment; Shame; Stigma; Therapy; Trauma

Indexed keywords

EID: 33746544117     PISSN: 08917140     EISSN: 15407128     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J236v10n02_03     Document Type: Article

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