Mother-to-Daughter Disclosure after Divorce: Are There Costs and Benefits?

Journal of Child and Family Studies

Volumn 11, Issue 4, 2002, Pages 469-483

  Koerner, Susan Silverberg ^a   Wallace, Sara ^a   Lehman, Stephanie Jacobs ^b   Raymond, Meghan ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ARIZONA   (United States)

^b SAN DIEGO STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c DARTMOUTH MEDICAL SCHOOL   (United States)

Author keywords

Boundaries; Disclosure; Divorce; Family systems theory; Mother adolescent relationships

Indexed keywords

EID: 33746478050     PISSN: 10621024     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1023/A:1020987509405     Document Type: Article

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