When loving means hurting: An exploration of attachment and intimate abuse in a community sample

Journal of Family Violence

Volumn 20, Issue 4, 2005, Pages 219-230

  Henderson, Antonia J Z ^a   Bartholomew, Kim ^a   Trinke, Shanna J ^b   Kwong, Marilyn J ^a  

^a SIMON FRASER UNIVERSITY   (Canada)

^b UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA   (Canada)

Author keywords

Adult attachment; Attachment behavior; Intimate abuse; Relationship abuse

Indexed keywords

EID: 29044442873     PISSN: 08857482     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s10896-005-5985-y     Document Type: Review

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