Beyond the grave - Adolescent parental loss: Letting go and holding on

Psychoanalytic Dialogues

Volumn 15, Issue 4, 2005, Pages 499-527

  Sussillo, Mary V ^a  

^a NONE   (United States)

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EID: 24044452243     PISSN: 10481885     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/10481881509348846     Document Type: Review

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