The demand/withdraw pattern of communication in parent-adolescent dyads

Personal Relationships

Volumn 12, Issue 3, 2005, Pages 337-355

  Caughlin, John P ^a   Ramey, Mary E ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

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EID: 23944499170     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1475-6811.2005.00119.x     Document Type: Review

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