The adversity of secret relationships

Personal Relationships

Volumn 12, Issue 1, 2005, Pages 125-143

  Foster, Craig A ^a   Campbell, W Keith ^b  

^a UNITED STATES AIR FORCE ACADEMY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF GEORGIA   (United States)

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EID: 14544299567     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1350-4126.2005.00105.x     Document Type: Review

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