Uncertainty management and adoptees' ambiguous loss of their birth parents

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 22, Issue 1, 2005, Pages 129-151

  Powell, Kimberly A ^a,c   Afifi, Tamara D ^b  

^a Luther College   (United States)

^b PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c LUTHER COLLEGE   (United States)

Author keywords

Adoption; Ambiguous loss; Information seeking; Uncertainty management

Indexed keywords

EID: 14144256545     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407505049325     Document Type: Review

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