'Feeling caught' in stepfamilies: Managing boundary turbulence through appropriate communication privacy rules

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 20, Issue 6, 2003, Pages 729-755

  Afifi, Tamara D ^a  

^a PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Boundaries; Communication; Communication privacy management theory; Dialectical theory; Stepfamilies; Triangulation

Indexed keywords

EID: 0346937279     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407503206002     Document Type: Article

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