Nifty ways to leave your lover: The tactics people use to entice and disguise the process of human mate poaching

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 29, Issue 8, 2003, Pages 1018-1035

  Schmitt, David P ^a   Shackelford, Todd K ^b  

^a BRADLEY UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b FLORIDA ATLANTIC UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Human sex differences; Infidelity; Mate poaching

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; ASSOCIATION; DECISION MAKING; ECONOMICS; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; LOVE; MALE; QUESTIONNAIRE; RECUMBENCY; REPRODUCIBILITY; SATISFACTION; SEX DIFFERENCE; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL DESIRABILITY;

CHOICE BEHAVIOR; CUES; DECEPTION; ECONOMICS; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; JUDGMENT; LOVE; MALE; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; QUESTIONNAIRES; REPRODUCIBILITY OF RESULTS; SEX FACTORS; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR; SOCIAL DESIRABILITY;

EID: 0042208125     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167203253471     Document Type: Article

References (45)

1. Abbey, A. (1982). Sex differences in attributions for friendly behavior: Do males misperceive females' friendliness? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 32, 830-838.
2. Baker, R. R., & Bellis, M. A. (1995). Human sperm competition. London: Chapman & Hall.
3. Betzig, L. (1989). Causes of conjugal dissolution: A cross-cultural study. Current Anthropology, 30, 654-676.
4. Bringle, R. G., & Buunk, B. P. (1991). Extradyadic relationships and sexual jealousy. In K. McKinney & S. Sprecher (Eds.), Sexuality and close relationships (pp. 135-153). Hillsdale, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum.
5. Buss, D. M. (1994). The evolution of desire. New York: Basic Books.
6. Buss, D. M. (2000). The dangerous passion. New York: Free Press.
7. Buss, D. M., Larsen, R., Westen, D., & Semmelroth, J. (1992). Sex differences in jealousy: Evolution, physiology, and psychology. Psychological Science, 3, 251-255.
8. Buss, D. M., & Schmitt, D. P. (1993). Sexual strategies theory: An evolutionary perspective on human mating. Psychological Review, 100, 204-232.
9. Buss, D. M., & Shackelford, T. K. (1997). From vigilance to violence: Mate retention tactics in married couples. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 72, 346-361.
10. Buss, D. M., Shackelford, T. K., Kirkpatrick, L. A., Choe, J., Hang, K. L., Hasegawa, M., et al. (1999). Jealousy and the nature of beliefs about infidelity: Tests of competing hypotheses about sex differences in the United States, Korea, and Japan. Personal Relationships, 6, 125-150.
11. Clark, R. D. (1990). The impact of AIDS on gender differences in willingness to engage in casual sex. Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 20, 771-782.
12. Clark, R. D., & Hatfield, E. (1989). Gender differences in receptivity to sexual offers. Journal of Psychology and Human Sexuality, 2, 39-55.
13. Daly, M., & Wilson, M. (1988). Homicide. Hawthorne, NY: Aldine de Gruyter.
14. Daly, M., Wilson, M., & Weghorst, S. J. (1982). Male sexual jealousy. Ethology and Sociobiology, 3, 11-27.
15. Darwin, C. R. (1871). The descent of man and selection in relation to sex. London: Murray.
16. Dawkins, R., & Krebs, J. R. (1978). Animal signals: Information or manipulation. In J. R. Krebs & N. B. Davies (Eds.), Behavioral ecology (pp. 282-309). Oxford, UK: Blackwell Scientific.
17. de Waal, F. (1986). Deception in the natural communication of chimpanzees. In R. W. Mitchell & N. S. Thompson (Eds.), Deception (pp. 221-244). Albany: State University of New York Press.
18. Eagly, A. H., & Wood, W. (1999). The origins of sex differences in human behavior: Evolved dispositions versus social roles. American Psychologist, 54, 408-423.
19. Ellis, B. J. (1992). The evolution of sexual attraction: Evaluative mechanisms in women. In J. H. Barkow, L. Cosmides, & J. Tooby (Eds.), The adapted mind (pp. 267-288). New York: Oxford University Press.
20. Goodall, J. (1971). In the shadow of man. Boston: Houghton Mifflin.
21. Green, R. B. (2000). Cheating mates. New Brunswick, NJ: Brelen Investigations Incorporated.
22. Greer, A. E., & Buss, D. M. (1994). Tactics for promoting sexual encounters. Journal of Sex Research, 31, 185-201.
23. Greiling, H., & Buss, D. M. (2000). Women's sexual strategies: The hidden dimension of short-term mating. Personality and Individual Differences, 28, 929-963.
24. Kenrick, D. T., Neuberg, S. L., Zierk, K. L., & Krones, J. M. (1994). Evolution and social cognition: Contrast effects as a function of sex, dominance, and physical attractiveness. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 20, 210-217.
25. Moore, M. M. (1995). Courtship signaling and adolescents: "Girls just wanna have fun?" Journal of Sex Research, 32, 319-328.
26. Perper, T. (1985). Sex signals. Philadelphia: Institute for Scientific Information.
27. Schmitt, D. P., Alcalay, L., Allik, J., Ault, L., Austers, I., Bennett, K. L., et al. (2003). Patterns and universals of mate poaching across 53 nations: The effects of sex, culture, and personality on romantically attracting another person's partner. Manuscript submitted for publication.
28. Schmitt, D. P., & Buss, D. M. (1996). Strategic self-promotion and competitor derogation: Sex and context effects on perceived effectiveness of mate attraction tactics. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 70, 1185-1204.
29. Schmitt, D. P., & Buss, D. M. (2001). Human mate poaching: Tactics and temptations for infiltrating existing mateships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 80, 894-917.
30. Schmitt, D. P., Couden, A., & Baker, M. (2001). The effects of sex and temporal context on feelings of romantic desire: An experimental evaluation of sexual strategies theory. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 27, 833-847.
31. Schmitt, D. P., Shackelford, T. K., & Buss, D. M. (2001). Are men really more oriented toward short-term mating than women? A critical review of theory and research. Psychology, Evolution, and Gender, 3, 211-239.
32. Schmitt, D. P., Shackelford, T. K., Duntley, J., Tooke, W., & Buss, D. M. (2001). The desire for sexual variety as a tool for understanding basic human mating strategies. Personal Relationships, 8, 425-455.
33. Shackelford, T. K. (1997). Perceptions of betrayal and the design of the mind. In J. A. Simpson & D. T. Kenrick (Eds.), Evolutionary social psychology (pp. 73-107). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum.
34. Shackelford, T. K., & Buss, D. M. (1997). Marital satisfaction in evolutionary psychology perspective. In R. J. Sternberg & M. Hojjat (Ed.), Satisfaction in close relationships (pp. 7-25). New York: Guilford.
35. Shackelford, T. K., & Buss, D. M. (2000). Marital satisfaction and spousal cost-infliction. Personality and Individual Differences, 28, 917-928.
36. Shackelford, T. K., Buss, D. M., & Peters, J. (2000). Wife killing: Risk to women as a function of age. Violence and Victims, 15, 273-282.
37. Shackelford, T. K., LeBlanc, G. J., Weekes-Shackelford, V. A., Bleske-Rechek, A. L., Euler, H. A., & Hoier, S. (2002). Psychological adaptation to human sperm competition. Evolution and Human Behavior, 23, 123-138.
38. Symons, D. (1979). The evolution of human sexuality. New York: Oxford.
39. Tooke, W., & Camire, L. (1991). Patterns of deception in intersexual and intrasexual mating strategies. Ethology and Sociobiology, 12, 345-364.
40. Trivers, R. L. (1985). Social evolution. Menlo Park, CA: Benjamin/Cummings.
41. United Nations Development Programme. (2001). Human development report 2001. New York: Oxford University Press.
42. Whiten, A., & Byrne, R. W. (1988). The manipulation of attention in primate tactical deception. In R. Byrne & A. Whiten (Eds.), Machiavellian intelligence (pp. 211-223). New York: Oxford University Press.
43. Wiederman, M. W., & Hurd, C. (1999). Extradyadic involvement during dating. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 16, 265-274.
44. Wiggins, J. D., & Lederer, D. A. (1984). Differential antecedents of infidelity in marriage. American Mental Health Counselors Association journal, 6, 152-161.
45. Wood, W., & Eagly, A. H. (2002) . A cross-cultural analysis of the behavior of men and women: Implications for the origins of sex differences. Psychological Bulletin, 128, 699-727.