Therapeutic discourse, power and change: Emotion and negotiation in marital conversations

Sociology

Volumn 32, Issue 4, 1998, Pages 771-793

  Benjamin, Orly ^a  

^a BAR ILAN UNIVERSITY   (Israel)

Author keywords

Emotion; Family work; Marital conversation; Marital power; Negotiation; Professional women; Therapeutic culture

Indexed keywords

EID: 0039984518     PISSN: 00380385     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0038038598032004008     Document Type: Article

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