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Volumn 34, Issue 3, 2001, Pages 547-568

Shrinking violets and caspar milquetoasts: Shyness and heterosexuality from the roles of the fifties to the rules of the nineties

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EID: 0039847251     PISSN: 00224529     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1353/jsh.2001.0022     Document Type: Article
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    • note
    • I limited my analysis to those self-help, etiquette, and advice books that could be considered to offer influential representations of shyness given their popularity with the reading public. Since sales figures were not publicly available, I measured popularity by three criteria: the publication of multiple editions, favorable reviews in trade journals consulted by librarians and booksellers, and an appearance on The New York Times' list of best-selling advice and how-to books (available only from 1984 onward). A total of 476 books published in the three time periods under consideration met one or more of these criteria; I chose a random sample of 183 to be included in my study; 36 were published between 1950 and 1960, 60 between 1970 and 1980, and 87 between 1985 and 1995.
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    • Debra Grodin, "The Interpreting Audience: The Therapeutics of Self-Help Book Reading," Critical Studies in Mass Communication 8 (1991): 404-20; Paul Lichterman, "Self-Help Reading as a Thin Culture," Media, Culture, and Society 14 (1992): 421-47; Wendy Simonds, Women and Self-Help Culture: Reading Between the Lines (New Brunswick, NJ, 1992).
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    • In 1945, of active readers (approximately one-half of the total population aged 15 and over, a proportion which remained relatively stable into the 1980s), 10% had read a self-help or psychology book in the last month (Henry C. Link and Harry Arthur Hopf, People and Books: A Study of Reading and Book-Buying Habits [New York, 1946], 74). By 1978, 46% of book readers had read at least one in the last six months, and by 1983, 54% of book readers had read at least one in the last six months (Yankelovich, Skelly and White, Consumer Research Study on Reading and Book Purchasing (New York, 1978), 142; Research and Forecasts, Inc., 1983 Consumer Research Study on Reading and Book Purchasing (New York, 1984), 34).
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    • In 1945, of active readers (approximately one-half of the total population aged 15 and over, a proportion which remained relatively stable into the 1980s), 10% had read a self-help or psychology book in the last month (Henry C. Link and Harry Arthur Hopf, People and Books: A Study of Reading and Book-Buying Habits [New York, 1946], 74). By 1978, 46% of book readers had read at least one in the last six months, and by 1983, 54% of book readers had read at least one in the last six months (Yankelovich, Skelly and White, Consumer Research Study on Reading and Book Purchasing (New York, 1978), 142; Research and Forecasts, Inc., 1983 Consumer Research Study on Reading and Book Purchasing (New York, 1984), 34).
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    • In 1945, of active readers (approximately one-half of the total population aged 15 and over, a proportion which remained relatively stable into the 1980s), 10% had read a self-help or psychology book in the last month (Henry C. Link and Harry Arthur Hopf, People and Books: A Study of Reading and Book-Buying Habits [New York, 1946], 74). By 1978, 46% of book readers had read at least one in the last six months, and by 1983, 54% of book readers had read at least one in the last six months (Yankelovich, Skelly and White, Consumer Research Study on Reading and Book Purchasing (New York, 1978), 142; Research and Forecasts, Inc., 1983 Consumer Research Study on Reading and Book Purchasing (New York, 1984), 34).
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    • I identified the race of the intended audience by looking for racial markers in the text. The small number of self-help books written for non-whites tended to signal their intended audience in the title (e.g., Satisfying the Black Men Sexually Made Simple, and Friends, Lovers, and Soul Mates: A Guide for Better Relationships Between Black Men and Women). Texts written for a primarily white audience often contained photographs exclusively of white people or included advice to readers to avoid racial prejudice. More often, self-help texts had no explicit racial markers; since silence about race generally signifies whiteness in much the same way that silence about gender signifies maleness, I concluded that these books were written for a primarily white audience (see Judith Shapiro, "'Women's Studies': A Note on the Perils of Markedness," Signs 7 [1982]: 718). The class bias of self-help books is evident in their distinctly middle-class theme, the notion of self-improvement through individual striving (Benjamin DeMott, The Imperial Middle: Why Americans Can't Think Straight About Class [New York, 1990], 43), as well as in the occupations of characters in the authors' vignettes: doctors, lawyers, teachers, etc.
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    • I identified the race of the intended audience by looking for racial markers in the text. The small number of self-help books written for non-whites tended to signal their intended audience in the title (e.g., Satisfying the Black Men Sexually Made Simple, and Friends, Lovers, and Soul Mates: A Guide for Better Relationships Between Black Men and Women). Texts written for a primarily white audience often contained photographs exclusively of white people or included advice to readers to avoid racial prejudice. More often, self-help texts had no explicit racial markers; since silence about race generally signifies whiteness in much the same way that silence about gender signifies maleness, I concluded that these books were written for a primarily white audience (see Judith Shapiro, "'Women's Studies': A Note on the Perils of Markedness," Signs 7 [1982]: 718). The class bias of self-help books is evident in their distinctly middle-class theme, the notion of self-improvement through individual striving (Benjamin DeMott, The Imperial Middle: Why Americans Can't Think Straight About Class [New York, 1990], 43), as well as in the occupations of characters in the authors' vignettes: doctors, lawyers, teachers, etc.
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    • Women wrote 47% of the books in the 1950s sample, but 64% of the actual text devoted to dating.
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    • Frances Bruce Strain, Love at the Threshold: A Book on Social Dating, Romance, and Marriage (New York, 1952), 75. Given the low average age of first marriage in the 1950s, texts on dating were directed primarily at teenage girls and boys. In later decades, as the age of first marriage increased, as well as the divorce rate, authors directed their advice to women and men of all ages.
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    • Evelyn Mills Duvall, Ph.D., The Art of Dating (New York: Association Press, 1958), 11. Self-help authors' views of the negative effects of aloofness were shared by most high-school girls. A study relying on a national sample of 2,005 girls in grades six through twelve conducted in the mid-1950s found that the majority of those aged 14 and over rated "snobbishness" as the primary source of unpopularity in girls (Elizabeth Douvan and Joseph Adelson, The Adolescent Experience [New York, 1966], 402).
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    • These "mannish" qualities included sports prowess, male attire (i.e., anything other than a dress or skirt), physical strength, swearing, and a lack of grace. See Allen and Brigs, Behave Yourself: Etiquette for American Youth, 90; Beery, Manners Made Easy, 194; Bryant, Miss Behavior: Popularity, Poise, and Personality for the Teenage Girl, 30-31; Newton and Nichols, How to Improve Your Personality, 89.
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    • Emotion work was originally conceptualized by Arlie Hochschild as "the act of trying to change in degree or quality an emotion or feeling" in oneself to bring it into line with "feeling rules" which prescribe how one ought to feel in a given situation. She distinguishes between emotion work, performed in private, and emotional labor, performed for pay (see Arlie Russell Hochschild, "Emotion Work, Feeling Rules, and Social Structure," American Journal of Sociology 85 [1979]: 561). I follow the lead of those scholars who use the terms more loosely, and interchangeably, to signify "emotional participation" or "doing intimacy" (see Jean Duncombe and Dennis Marsden, "Love and Intimacy: The Gender Division of Emotion and 'Emotion Work,'" Sociology 27 [1993]: 221-41; Jean Duncombe and Dennis Marsden, "'Workaholics' and 'Whingeing Women': Theorising Intimacy and Emotion Work - the Last Frontier of Gender Inequality?" The Sociological Review 43 (1995): 150-69; Nicky James, "Emotional Labour: Skill and Work in the Social Regulation of Feelings," The Sociological Review 37 (1989): 15-42).
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    • Emotion work was originally conceptualized by Arlie Hochschild as "the act of trying to change in degree or quality an emotion or feeling" in oneself to bring it into line with "feeling rules" which prescribe how one ought to feel in a given situation. She distinguishes between emotion work, performed in private, and emotional labor, performed for pay (see Arlie Russell Hochschild, "Emotion Work, Feeling Rules, and Social Structure," American Journal of Sociology 85 [1979]: 561). I follow the lead of those scholars who use the terms more loosely, and interchangeably, to signify "emotional participation" or "doing intimacy" (see Jean Duncombe and Dennis Marsden, "Love and Intimacy: The Gender Division of Emotion and 'Emotion Work,'" Sociology 27 [1993]: 221-41; Jean Duncombe and Dennis Marsden, "'Workaholics' and 'Whingeing Women': Theorising Intimacy and Emotion Work - the Last Frontier of Gender Inequality?" The Sociological Review 43 (1995): 150-69; Nicky James, "Emotional Labour: Skill and Work in the Social Regulation of Feelings," The Sociological Review 37 (1989): 15-42).
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    • Emotional labour: Skill and work in the social regulation of feelings
    • Emotion work was originally conceptualized by Arlie Hochschild as "the act of trying to change in degree or quality an emotion or feeling" in oneself to bring it into line with "feeling rules" which prescribe how one ought to feel in a given situation. She distinguishes between emotion work, performed in private, and emotional labor, performed for pay (see Arlie Russell Hochschild, "Emotion Work, Feeling Rules, and Social Structure," American Journal of Sociology 85 [1979]: 561). I follow the lead of those scholars who use the terms more loosely, and interchangeably, to signify "emotional participation" or "doing intimacy" (see Jean Duncombe and Dennis Marsden, "Love and Intimacy: The Gender Division of Emotion and 'Emotion Work,'" Sociology 27 [1993]: 221-41; Jean Duncombe and Dennis Marsden, "'Workaholics' and 'Whingeing Women': Theorising Intimacy and Emotion Work - the Last Frontier of Gender Inequality?" The Sociological Review 43 (1995): 150-69; Nicky James, "Emotional Labour: Skill and Work in the Social Regulation of Feelings," The Sociological Review 37 (1989): 15-42).
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    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
    • (1983) American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex
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    • New York
    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
    • (1987) Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size , pp. 97-98
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    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
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    • Ferguson, A.1
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    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
    • (1983) The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling , pp. 165
    • Hochschild, A.R.1
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    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
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    • Mansfield, P.1    Collard, J.2
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    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
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    • Peplau, L.A.1    Gordon, S.L.2
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    • Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz, American Couples: Money, Work, and Sex (New York, 1983); Sally Cline and Dale Spender, Reflecting Men at Twice Their Natural Size (New York, 1987), 97-98; Ann Ferguson, Blood at the Root: Motherhood, Sexuality, and Male Dominance (London, 1989), 97; Arlie Russell Hochschild, The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling (Berkeley, Los Angeles, & London, 1983), 165; P. Mansfield and Jean Collard, The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life? (London, 1988), 178-79; Letitia A. Peplau and Steven L. Gordon, "Women and Men in Love: Gender Differences in Close Heterosexual Relationships," in Women, Gender, and Social Psychology, ed. Virginia E. O'Leary, Rhoda Kesler Unger and Barbara Strudler Wallston (Hillsdale, NJ, 1985), 257-91; Lillian Rubin, Worlds of Pain: Life in the Working-Class Family (New York, 1976), 114-33.
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    • Although I focus here on the impact of the women's movement on conceptions of white femininity, women of color were also involved in the women's movement, participating with white women both in large, mainstream feminist organizations like the National Organization for Women, and in smaller ones (see Paula Giddings, When and Where I Enter: The Impact of Black Women on Race and Sex in America [New York, 1984], 303-04). Women of color also founded their own feminist organizations, such as the National Black Feminist Organization and the Combahee River Collective (see William H. Chafe, Women and Equality: Changing Patterns in American Culture [New York, 1977], 125; Combahee River Collective, "The Combahee River Collective Statement," in Capitalist Patriarchy and the Case for Socialist Feminism, ed. Zillah R. Eisenstein [New York, 1979], 362-72).
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    • Although I focus here on the impact of the women's movement on conceptions of white femininity, women of color were also involved in the women's movement, participating with white women both in large, mainstream feminist organizations like the National Organization for Women, and in smaller ones (see Paula Giddings, When and Where I Enter: The Impact of Black Women on Race and Sex in America [New York, 1984], 303-04). Women of color also founded their own feminist organizations, such as the National Black Feminist Organization and the Combahee River Collective (see William H. Chafe, Women and Equality: Changing Patterns in American Culture [New York, 1977], 125; Combahee River Collective, "The Combahee River Collective Statement," in Capitalist Patriarchy and the Case for Socialist Feminism, ed. Zillah R. Eisenstein [New York, 1979], 362-72).
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    • Although I focus here on the impact of the women's movement on conceptions of white femininity, women of color were also involved in the women's movement, participating with white women both in large, mainstream feminist organizations like the National Organization for Women, and in smaller ones (see Paula Giddings, When and Where I Enter: The Impact of Black Women on Race and Sex in America [New York, 1984], 303-04). Women of color also founded their own feminist organizations, such as the National Black Feminist Organization and the Combahee River Collective (see William H. Chafe, Women and Equality: Changing Patterns in American Culture [New York, 1977], 125; Combahee River Collective, "The Combahee River Collective Statement," in Capitalist Patriarchy and the Case for Socialist Feminism, ed. Zillah R. Eisenstein [New York, 1979], 362-72).
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    • Bloom, L.Z.1    Coburn, K.2    Pearlman, J.3
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    • Lynn Z. Bloom, Karen Coburn and Joan Pearlman, The New Assertive Woman (New York, 1975), 152; Pamela Butler, Self-Assertion for Women: A Guide to Becoming Androgynous (San Francisco, 1976), 4; Barbara Powell, Overcoming Shyness: Practical Scripts for Everyday Encounters (New York, 1979), 1.
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    • Lynn Z. Bloom, Karen Coburn and Joan Pearlman, The New Assertive Woman (New York, 1975), 152; Pamela Butler, Self-Assertion for Women: A Guide to Becoming Androgynous (San Francisco, 1976), 4; Barbara Powell, Overcoming Shyness: Practical Scripts for Everyday Encounters (New York, 1979), 1.
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    • Ellis1
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    • Emily Coleman and Betty Edwards, Brief Encounters (Garden City, NY, 1976), 68; Ellis, The Intelligent Woman's Guide to Daring, 111; Robert L. Williams and James D. Long, Toward a Self-Managed Life Style (Boston, 1979), 80.
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    • Zimbardo1
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    • John W. Drakeford, Games Husbands and Wives Play (Nashville, TN, 1970), 73; Arnold Lazarus, Ph.D. and Allen Fay, M.D., I Can If I Want To (New York, 1975), 38; Charlie W. Shedd, Talk to Me! (New York, 1975), 47; James Wagenvoord, The Man's Book: A Complete Manual of Style (New York, 1978), 284; Wassmer, Making Contact: A Guide to Overcoming Shyness, 119; Zimbardo, Shyness: What It is, What to Do About It, 113.
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    • John W. Drakeford, Games Husbands and Wives Play (Nashville, TN, 1970), 73; Arnold Lazarus, Ph.D. and Allen Fay, M.D., I Can If I Want To (New York, 1975), 38; Charlie W. Shedd, Talk to Me! (New York, 1975), 47; James Wagenvoord, The Man's Book: A Complete Manual of Style (New York, 1978), 284; Wassmer, Making Contact: A Guide to Overcoming Shyness, 119; Zimbardo, Shyness: What It is, What to Do About It, 113.
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    • John W. Drakeford, Games Husbands and Wives Play (Nashville, TN, 1970), 73; Arnold Lazarus, Ph.D. and Allen Fay, M.D., I Can If I Want To (New York, 1975), 38; Charlie W. Shedd, Talk to Me! (New York, 1975), 47; James Wagenvoord, The Man's Book: A Complete Manual of Style (New York, 1978), 284; Wassmer, Making Contact: A Guide to Overcoming Shyness, 119; Zimbardo, Shyness: What It is, What to Do About It, 113.
    • Making Contact: A Guide to Overcoming Shyness , pp. 119
    • Wassmer1
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    • John W. Drakeford, Games Husbands and Wives Play (Nashville, TN, 1970), 73; Arnold Lazarus, Ph.D. and Allen Fay, M.D., I Can If I Want To (New York, 1975), 38; Charlie W. Shedd, Talk to Me! (New York, 1975), 47; James Wagenvoord, The Man's Book: A Complete Manual of Style (New York, 1978), 284; Wassmer, Making Contact: A Guide to Overcoming Shyness, 119; Zimbardo, Shyness: What It is, What to Do About It, 113.
    • Shyness: What It is, What to Do About It , pp. 113
    • Zimbardo1
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    • Robert C. Dodds, Two Together: A Handbook for Your Marriage (New York, 1959), 89-90; Elizabeth Fetter, Help Your Husband Stay Alive (New York, 1957), 212. This finding is consistent with Cancian and Gordon's historical analysis of representations of love and anger in American women's magazines, which found that, prior to the 1960s, wives were advised that the repression of anger was the epitome of love for their husbands (see Francesca M. Cancian and Steven L. Gordon, "Changing Emotion Norms in Marriage: Love and Anger in U.S. Women's Magazines Since 1900," Gender and Society 2, no. 3 [September 1988]: 308-42).
    • (1959) Two Together: A Handbook for Your Marriage , pp. 89-90
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    • Robert C. Dodds, Two Together: A Handbook for Your Marriage (New York, 1959), 89-90; Elizabeth Fetter, Help Your Husband Stay Alive (New York, 1957), 212. This finding is consistent with Cancian and Gordon's historical analysis of representations of love and anger in American women's magazines, which found that, prior to the 1960s, wives were advised that the repression of anger was the epitome of love for their husbands (see Francesca M. Cancian and Steven L. Gordon, "Changing Emotion Norms in Marriage: Love and Anger in U.S. Women's Magazines Since 1900," Gender and Society 2, no. 3 [September 1988]: 308-42).
    • (1957) Help Your Husband Stay Alive , pp. 212
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    • Robert C. Dodds, Two Together: A Handbook for Your Marriage (New York, 1959), 89-90; Elizabeth Fetter, Help Your Husband Stay Alive (New York, 1957), 212. This finding is consistent with Cancian and Gordon's historical analysis of representations of love and anger in American women's magazines, which found that, prior to the 1960s, wives were advised that the repression of anger was the epitome of love for their husbands (see Francesca M. Cancian and Steven L. Gordon, "Changing Emotion Norms in Marriage: Love and Anger in U.S. Women's Magazines Since 1900," Gender and Society 2, no. 3 [September 1988]: 308-42).
    • (1988) Gender and Society , vol.2 , Issue.3 , pp. 308-342
    • Cancian, F.M.1    Gordon, S.L.2
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    • Talk to Me! , pp. 5
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    • Dr. Joyce Brothers, How to Get Whatever You Want Out of Life (New York, 1978), 208; Lasswell and Lobsenz, No Fault Marriage: The New Technique of Self-Counseling and What It Can Help You to Do, 142; Pierre Mornell, M.D., Passive Men, Wild Women (New York, 1979), 19; Ellen Peck, The Baby Trap (New York, 1971), 224; Dorothy Sarnoff, Speech Can Change Your Life: Tips on Speech, Conversation, and Speechmaking (New York, 1970), 121; Shedd, Talk to Me!, ix. Although it seems unlikely that this phenomenon was unheard of in the 1950s, self-help texts devoted little space to the topic; wives were not counseled on how to cope with or overcome it, suggesting that it was either considered normal, and hence unremarkable, or it was indeed not a widespread problem. In fact, Thomson's analysis of best-selling 1950s self-help manuals suggests that authors were simply not likely to address any kind of difficulty in love relationships, an omission she attributes to the low divorce rate (see Irene Taviss Thomson, "Individualism and Conformity in the 1950s Vs. the 1980s," Sociological Forum 7, no. 3 [1992]: 506).
    • (1978) How to Get Whatever You Want Out of Life , pp. 208
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    • Dr. Joyce Brothers, How to Get Whatever You Want Out of Life (New York, 1978), 208; Lasswell and Lobsenz, No Fault Marriage: The New Technique of Self-Counseling and What It Can Help You to Do, 142; Pierre Mornell, M.D., Passive Men, Wild Women (New York, 1979), 19; Ellen Peck, The Baby Trap (New York, 1971), 224; Dorothy Sarnoff, Speech Can Change Your Life: Tips on Speech, Conversation, and Speechmaking (New York, 1970), 121; Shedd, Talk to Me!, ix. Although it seems unlikely that this phenomenon was unheard of in the 1950s, self-help texts devoted little space to the topic; wives were not counseled on how to cope with or overcome it, suggesting that it was either considered normal, and hence unremarkable, or it was indeed not a widespread problem. In fact, Thomson's analysis of best-selling 1950s self-help manuals suggests that authors were simply not likely to address any kind of difficulty in love relationships, an omission she attributes to the low divorce rate (see Irene Taviss Thomson, "Individualism and Conformity in the 1950s Vs. the 1980s," Sociological Forum 7, no. 3 [1992]: 506).
    • No Fault Marriage: The New Technique of Self-Counseling and What It Can Help You to Do , pp. 142
    • Lasswell1    Lobsenz2
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