To love violently: Strategies for reconciling love and violence

Violence Against Women

Volumn 8, Issue 4, 2002, Pages 476-494

  Borochowitz, Dalit Yassour ^a   Eisikovits, Zvi ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF HAIFA   (Israel)

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EID: 0036110347     PISSN: 10778012     EISSN: 15528448     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/10778010222183170     Document Type: Article

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