Find your partner and do-si-do: The formation of personal relationships between social beings

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 14, Issue 3, 1997, Pages 387-415

  Sanders, Robert E ^a  

^a STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK   (United States)

Author keywords

Partnership; Role enactment; Social interaction

Indexed keywords

EID: 0031287267     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407597143007     Document Type: Article

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