Nonoffending mothers of sexually abused children: Comparison of opinions and research

Journal of Child Sexual Abuse

Volumn 5, Issue 4, 1997, Pages 75-104

  Tamraz, Djenane Nakhle ^a,b  

^a NEW YORK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b The Family Center   (United States)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; FEMALE; HUMAN; INCEST; LITERATURE; MOTHER; POSTTRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER; RESEARCH; SEX ROLE; SEXUAL ABUSE;

EID: 0030437547     PISSN: 10538712     EISSN: 15470679     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J070v05n04_05     Document Type: Article

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